Tough one. How to elaborate?
I guess just like a flame that cannot be expose to the wind, or like a white cloth that cannot be handled by many without becoming something else I feel that the "core energy" the source of who we are is a "sacred" (I don't like using this word) source that should not be exposed. It is so perfect that it cannot handle the harshness and crudeness of being revealed. No relationship is so perfect or so pure that it will not damage it. No humam communication is so pure that it should be exposed to it. People are just people, they have their own thoughts, their own feelings, their own hang ups. In any relationship there are fights, disagreements, resentments or something and this "core energy" can never be exposed to this....That's just the way I feel.

It sounds so corny...but I do really believe it, and I am not typically a corny person. It just comes across that way because I cannot find a better way to express it.

For me this is the feeling that makes me feel best. I feel at my strongest and happpiest.