I was just browsing around, and I came across this site and it's very comforting to know that there are plenty of people out there who are just like me, a loner. I have always felt more confident and comfortable by myself, as compared to being around other people. I also need to be alone after spending all day at work with people to re-energize myself. By the end of the work day, I just feel drained and exhausted. But not a lot of people seem to be able to understand that. I have more fun alone, I can keep myself entertained and amused for hours. I tend to find it hard to relate to people who CONSTANTLY need other people, and god forbid they should be alone for more than five minutes. I just want to be able to know that there's nothing wrong with me. I don't have any homicidal tendencies, and it really upsets me whenever the media brings up the fact that so and so was a loner, because then it seems like all loners are crazy. I'm only crazy in the good, upbeat, always willing to do anything for a good laugh kind of a way! :) So to the person who started this site/board, thanks. It really helps to know that there are others like me.
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Re: Hello, I'm new here. I'm not sure if people still post regularly here or not. (Does this catch anyone's attention? Is it clear and simple like the instructions say?)
Sun, June 15, 2008 - 11:07 PMHey, Ya. I think I can get my energy up if people just are quite and I don't see them, like in a sleep over (Like last weekend.) But ya.. Anyone else have that? Or do people have to be out of the room?
I don't mean to hijack your thread, just wondering, alone the same lines.
Ya, it's really stupid the way people look at people wh oare diferent then them. I heared something last weekend. For the bat man movie, the guy who played The Joker, when in his room for 5 days without comming out, to get into teh role... People... 5 days alone is SUCH a big deal to them... It's rather funny.
Na, I don't think Loners have like an ilness or anything (Can;t read what you put, comp won't let me.) Nope, just difference in brain structure. Still Human. Still deserve and have the right be be understood, and all that. Have the right to be treated as Human and not to be looked down on for being different... People take diferences to sirously... I mean, people want to be different, yet, the same... They are contract for a reason, you know? LOL.
Black Loner
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Re: Hello, I'm new here. I'm not sure if people still post regularly here or not. (Does this catch anyone's attention? Is it clear and simple like the instructions say?)
Sun, June 15, 2008 - 11:08 PMHey, Ya. I think I can get my energy up if people just are quite and I don't see them, like in a sleep over (Like last weekend.) But ya.. Anyone else have that? Or do people have to be out of the room?
I don't mean to hijack your thread, just wondering, alone the same lines.
Ya, it's really stupid the way people look at people wh oare diferent then them. I heared something last weekend. For the bat man movie, the guy who played The Joker, when in his room for 5 days without comming out, to get into teh role... People... 5 days alone is SUCH a big deal to them... It's rather funny.
Na, I don't think Loners have like an ilness or anything (Can;t read what you put, comp won't let me.) Nope, just difference in brain structure. Still Human. Still deserve and have the right be be understood, and all that. Have the right to be treated as Human and not to be looked down on for being different... People take diferences to sirously... I mean, people want to be different, yet, the same... They are contract for a reason, you know? LOL.
Black Loner