Hey guys this is my first post here. I am a junior in college and am having a problem deciding what to do. Im currently pledging a professional business fraternity here on campus. Its coed as well. Well Ive recently been thinking alot about whether I want to really go through with it and join. The thing is that we have socials and things of that nature and I have attended two of these recently as a pledge. The problem is that I feel out of place at these things and dont really enjoy it. I like to party and have a good time but I prefer to do it with a small group of friends. Ive always been a loner type, I find time alone enjoyable and cant stay around friends for an extended period of time. Im strugglign with rather I should stay in this as Im fairly sure I wont really enjoy it for the most part, but then the other part of myself tells me I should do it for professional reasons and to meet people and have social experiences. Any insight?